Received a msg from SM...poor guy having trouble sleeping...haiz...what can I say...we're 2 persons afflicted with the same troubles in the same boat at this moment...well...at least I'm recovering my equilibrium...
True...Ben and I are 2 very different people...we have quite different goals...with him everything's always about work...for me I want to work hard...but play harder...I believe a person's life should be spent doing things she enjoys doing while striving for goals...concurrently...he wants to settle down...but I'm not ready to...not until I'm at least 2 years into a relationship...so I know what I want and how to work things out...I don't want to have to deal with the unnecessary things which can otherwise be avoided...but unfortunately...he doesn't seem to understand that...
SM...thinking makes you feel tired...doesn't it? Then tell yourself you don't want to think so much...try casting everything behind you...look forward...don't look back...don't worry about troubling me...like I told you...talking to you makes me put my own problems into perspectives...sometimes I get so tired thinking I just don't want to think anymore...I totally understand how you feel...I was in your shoes once too...you know...I was stuck in the rut...unable to save myself...for 2 whole years...before I started regaining the sight and the strength to climb out...
Give yourself time...Rome was never built in a day...sometimes we lose sight of ourselves...sometimes we lost confidence...sometimes we lose strength...give yourself time to grieve...then get it over and done with...you never stand alone...always remember that...you have friends and family and people around you who understand...to different levels...what you're going through...even if I can't fully understand or feel how you feel...at least I can remember the agony I went through when I experienced the same thing...and I don't want you to feel the same way becos I can remember how terrible that period was...
C'mon...you can do it...you know you can...just keep yourself very busy...and before you know it...it will be over...I should know it...cos I've been there too...
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